A Change of Pace

Where do I even start? My head is spinning as we speak. I am one of those people who will try anything once if I think it's what's best for me. Many people will tell you I am not afraid of change, I actually embrace it. It's no surprise that there is a change coming in the next couple of weeks for me. Remember when I said some big (exciting!) things were happening to me? Well here I am ready to tell you about them...

I've been looking for a new job for awhile because it was time for me to go in a new direction. Looking for a job is a necessary evil everyone has to deal with & it's never easy. Trust me! I've had times in my life where I didn't have a job, I worked two jobs, I worked for free etc. to get me where I am today. It hasn't been easy & has involved A LOT of growing pains.

Summer 2010- first internship in Washington DC

Every job has taught me something, there were things I took away from each job to apply to the next position. When I first started this journey I had no idea where I would end up. ^^ Young me in the picture above was scared, unaware of what the future would hold & I honestly had no idea I would eventually move back out to DC.

In 2011 I graduated from the University of Utah, I had an internship at the Consumer Electronics Association lined up in the summer. I was excited to be able to move to DC again + start a new chapter.

Moving to DC was a huge step in the right direction for me, even though I had no idea at the time. I knew that either way I would learn something from the upcoming experiences. When I say I had one hell of a year 1/2 in DC I mean it. I went from an internship + working at a restaurant, to working at Nordstrom & then a small PR Agency. I went through a hard break up that seemed like the end of the world to me. I was really struggling to find myself. It was time for me to take a break & come up with another plan. 

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I have mentioned before how amazing of a family I have (seriously so great) they support me through every decision. I really can't ask for more! My sister is one of the most caring people I know, she is the person who builds me up, she is my closest & best friend. She knew everything I was going through during my time in DC & gave me an offer I will forever be grateful for (I talk about that here.) 

I am not going to say that moving to Boston was the easiest decision for me because, I honestly felt like I was giving up. As you can imagine so many thoughts went through my head & I would never know if I was making the right decision unless I just went for it. So... that's what I did!

I arrived in Boston with no job, no friends & no clue what I was doing. But I did know that throughout it all I would have my sister (Amy) & her husband (Will). Moving someplace where you have an automatic support system is the best! They understand you like nobody else & when you come home crying you have someone to wipe your tears. I truly believe I was able to be successful in Boston thanks to my amazing support system. 

Being in Boston hasn't been easy but it has been a great experience. I will never forget all the friends I made here, the hard times I had at work & what it taught me, the realizations I've had about who I am, who I want to be & everything in between. I've grown as a 20 something & this chapter has been a valuable one. 

Now you're asking.... where do you go from here? Well, the past few weeks have been TOUGH I had no idea where I would be this next year. Well, I am happy to say I have found clarity in all of this!

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I am excited to say that I have recently been offered a new position in the DC area! I will be moving in the next few weeks to start & I couldn't be more excited. I believe everything in life teaches you something. This journey I have been on has been hard but, let me tell you it's totally worth it! I am extremely proud of myself. I can't wait for this new chapter & to share updates with you soon.

Xo,

Emily

P.s. Thanks again to everyone for all of your support!

Good Hair Don't Care!

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It's no lie that I am sucker for hair care especially since I have been trying to grow my hair out for the past year (which is difficult.) But I also love hair products that are great for your locks + have a nice price tag! That's why I am really excited about the Nexxus hair care prime color line. I can't wait to try these products!

Nexxus is giving you a chance to win EVERYDAY by entering your selfie on their Facebook page. I know you have a selfie!! I sure do...

^^ Can you spot yours truly in this picture? Go enter & if you try the product let me know how you like it.

Xo,

Emily

Winter Blues

Do you ever just want to get away? I do! I have been daydreaming for days about grabbing my girlfriends & taking a vacation to somewhere warm. Can't someone just fund me a mini-vacation? I would absolutely love it (seriously though.) I have a huge passion for traveling, meeting new people, exploring new areas & of course relaxing. Right now, I feel like decisions I will be making in the future are out of my hands at the current moment. This leaves me feeling anxious, aloof & wishing I was traveling. What do you do when you feel like this?

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1. Plan a trip with my girlfriends (you know who you are, lets get on this!)

1. Visit Maine

1. Day trip to Salem

1. Stay overnight in Vermont

1. Take a road trip to Newport Rhode Island

1. Cook two nights a week (I hardly cook...oops)

1. Learn how to knit

1. Go skiing before winter is over (tentative date in place)

1. Go to a concert once a month

1. Visit Allison in Chicago

This week has started off good & I am really proud of myself-- yesterday marks my one year anniversary in my current position! Time flies... it literally seems like just yesterday I packed up my room in DC to head to Boston. 

I've said plenty of times being in your 20's isn't easy! It's a time of change & uncertainty. I try REALLY hard not to compare my journey with others but, sometimes I find myself doing it. I work in digital media which means I am on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Pinterest etc. during the day. I am constantly reminded of others’ lives. It sometimes gets to me!

Instead of saying oh "I wish I could go on a trip to Italy like so & so." I want to put those statements into actions! I am starting to getting frustrated-- I keep saying "I want to do this, this, this & this" & not doing any of them. It's time for my bucket list! I will continue to add onto this but for right now here are some things I would love to do (soon!)
I am keeping this small for right now, so I can actually do them! Once I do them, I will check them off & I will add more. I want to hear from anyone out there-- how do you kick the winter blues & actually make your statements into actions? Comment below!

Xo,

Emily 

Weekend Bliss

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I always love the weekends but, who doesn't? This weekend I had a great excuse to have some friends over for a Galentines celebration on Friday. I made the delicious cookies that I mentioned here, ordered pizza, made yummy drinks & caught up with the girls. The night was much needed & of course ended with us watching our favorite music videos like Beyonce, Britney Spears, Hanson & Backstreet Boys (I am a total 90's kid.)

Cookie bags + drinks for Galentines

I put the cookies in cute little bags (inspired by these bags by Spoon Fork Bacon) to make the girls feel extra special. The straws also add a fun touch to our drinks!

^^ How cute is Courtney? 

Even though I am single I still enjoy celebrating Valentines & appreciating all the amazing people I have in my life. My darling friend Jessica from home (Salt Lake City) sent me a sweet gift for Valentines. I had no idea something was coming until I got home & I discovered a package. Even after opening it I wasn't sure who they were from & I asked my sister if she ordered me earrings. It wasn't until after opening & digging into the package that I noticed they were from Jessie!! I also, got a rose from my Uber driver which was a sweet touch to the day.

She knows me so well! Anything with a bow, I love.

The day after V-day I met up with some friends to get brunch at The Regal Beagle which is right down the street from where I live. It's a small little restaurant with delicious drinks! If you're ever visiting Boston or Brookline you should give it a try! 

Also, how can you not love a restaurant who's mascot is a beagle? Oh & check out the yummy food I had!

There is nothing better than eating delicious food, hanging out with friends & hiding away from the snow. After brunch my friend Emily and I decided to stop off at the Brookline Booksmith to cozy up to some books.

While we were wandering around the store we saw a coloring book + crayons. What could be better? We of course bought them & headed back to my apartment. Coloring is super relaxing, I don't know why I ever stopped doing it. Oh & we of course bought half priced chocolate...

Coloring fun!

After coloring I decided to brave the snow again & go out...

Braving the storm with a mini top knot.

This morning the snow finally stopped & it was actually a gorgeous day. I decided to head downtown to pick up some stuff for this upcoming week (more on that later.) I always love going to Copley Square it's one of my favorite places in Boston...

Copley Square!

After taking in the gorgeous view, I headed into Nordstrom Rack to run some errands. Before Valentine's Day, Kate Spade, was having a 75% off sale & I had my eye on a bag but it of course sold out. So today when I was at Nordstrom Rack I saw this lovely bag & I had to treat myself! I don't usually splurge like this but I felt like I deserved it (ha!).

Splurge alert! 

All in all it was a great weekend! I am nervous about this upcoming week because it is a big one for me... I can't really talk about it right now but, lots of exciting things are happening. I hope to share with all of you soon. In the meantime wish me luck & send lots of good vibes. I hope you all had a great weekend + have a great week ahead!

Xo,

Emily

P.s. we are getting more snow this week, who else is ready for spring? Bring it on...

Valentines Day

Obv today is Valentines Day....you are probably seeing several Facebook updates, Tweets, Instagramss, emails, etc. about how in love everyone is! If you're single or taken it doesn't matter! Just think of it as another day & don't put pressure on yourself. I love any holiday! It's an excuse to make yummy treats (duh!), cocktails & enjoy yourself. So today, I am doing just that & I started last night by making these cookies for a little party I am having for my girlfriends tonight.

These cookies are extra yummy because they have pink M&M's & chocolate chips in them + they are super cute!

Once the dough is ready you roll them into balls & I strategically placed the M&M's to make them extra cute!

Since the dough is a little different you need to refrigerate it-- if you're impatient like I am you can put them in for an hour to cool the dough. I promise they are worth the wait!

I am so excited to eat them tonight with my friends! I am also going to make this yummy drink tonight for our girls night. Grab your girlfriends or your lover & do this tonight!

Happy Valentines everyone <3! Lots & lots of love from Boston.

Xo,

Emily

Getting things done

After a very inactive few years on the blog, Emily and I are giving it a real shot on our blog. Look for more updates and definitely some daily outfit posts coming soon.

Love etc...

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Valentines Day is right around the corner and by corner I mean tomorrow... I  used to dread this holiday thinking "poor me, I am single & alone." Now I have grown to accept the holiday & not dwell on the fact that I am single, but see all the great things I have in my life. Let me give you a quick recap of everything that I do currently have in my life since, I haven't written in forever!

The last time we talked I was living in Washington DC & worked at a PR agency. Things were not great & I honestly was going through a really hard time. I think Amber received many calls with me in tears asking "what do I do now?" I was going through something I think many young people struggle with after graduating-- I didn't know what I REALLY wanted for the first time. I was scared, homesick, didn't really like my job, going through growing pains & trying to figure it all out by myself. What do you do when this happens? Do I move all the way back to Utah to try to figure it out? Well for me moving back home seemed like I was giving up, that I wasn't trying to make it work (which isn't the case I've come to realize). But anyway, my sister & her husband were living in Boston during all this. My sister is one of my best friends & one of the people I was constantly in tears with. She knew how hard this was for me & told me I should move to Boston to be close to family & figure out what I want without having to go all the way home. This shows how selfless & caring my sister + her husband really are. I took them up on the offer & said goodbye to DC, a place I fell in love with & that will always have a piece of my heart.

Leaving DC November 21, 2012

I arrived to Boston & I don't think I fully understood what I was doing. I had just left a life I created for myself, quit a job without a job, left a place I already knew for a place I didn't know & I was excited for what was to come but, obviously scared for what my future would look like. Luckily for me this move was honestly very easy! I believe that's because I have Amy (my sister) & Will (my brother in law) a built in support system that I knew would be there for me. The first couple of weeks were a bit rough & once again filled with lots of calls to my Mom & friends asking "what am I going to do?" It's quite scary to not know what your next job will be, where you will live, who your friends will be etc...

My new home, Boston!

I was lucky & got a job pretty quickly after moving to Boston, figured out my living situation & met some friends. I could see Boston quickly becoming a place I called home. I am not going to lie & say I loved it right off the bat because I honestly didn't. Boston is one of those places a lot of people move to for school, for a new career or people grew up here. I had a hard time meeting people even though there are young people all around & I sometimes felt like running back to DC. But I stuck it out & have lived here for over a year! I have some really good friends, a nice apartment, a job & exciting things to come. This year I look at Valentines Day with appreciation for my family, friends & all of the opportunities I have had to explore who I am.

Although I might not have all the answers right now or know what my next chapter is-- I do know who I want to be, where I want to go & the people I want to surround myself with. This my dear is all part of your 20's & 5 years into it I have come this far. I hope you all have a great Valentines Day filled with lots of love.

XO,

Emily